Time to slow down…
In early September on a random Thursday morning, I received a text from my bestie since (yikes!), 1st grade, “guess who’s having her appendix out today?”
What would have normally been a routine appendectomy and an overnight hospital stay escalated, resulting in complications, an additional surgery and a whopping 8-days in the hospital. She was weak, exhausted and dare I say even a bit traumatized.
I told her I could take time off work and leave my flowers. I made her promise to ask if she needed me to fly out and take care of her for a few days once she was released.
“My friend, I can think of nothing more helpful.” And within ten minutes I had a flight to Boston.
Now she just needed to rest and be still until my arrival in three days.
Neither of us are good at sitting, being still or resting.
She was fragile and weak and once she got home her texts were a bit frantic. “When I get there I am going to sit with you but until then you just have to sit. Nothing else matters. ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. Just rest.”
On Tuesday I left my flowers in good hands with Mr. Hart and spent five days sitting with her. I cooked and shopped and tidied up for her but mostly we just sat and laughed and took naps and talked. She hit the milestones of walking a little further each day, dipping her toes in the water and eating a real meal.
It was healing to simply be.
For her and for me.
During those five days we were both forced to slow down. To take a breath. To have a conscious moment in which to discern if the daily choices we make are life giving or life sucking.
To actually feel that less is more. And less felt really good. When it was time to leave not only was I grateful I had the opportunity to help her get back on her feet, but that I could join her in slowing down.
And so I’m continuing to embrace slowing down (she’ll keep me accountable!) and I’m continuing to choose life giving instead of life sucking.
I invite you to please join me as I slow down and move all my flower “talk” to the more peaceful place that is my website. I will be eliminating my social media presence and all communication via direct message. My blog, email updates and website will take over from here.
As always, thank you for your interest in my flowers. I love sharing them with you.
